Wednesday, November 30, 2011

why is important to forgive?

I think in my opinion there are many people who make many mistakes, not knowing perhaps value what they have or maybe that misbehave and then repent for what they have done and ask forgiveness when we ask forgiveness as it is very difficult many people do not forgive so for give himself for damage they have but in my opinion I think it is very important because if you forgive to free yourself of course disturbing thoughts and emotions that drain our physical, mental, emotional and we were happier knowing that the person is forgiveness for the harm he has done for example is said that the person being forgiven means that already reacted and took much of the damage that's why he is apologizing and excuse or forgive the person we are rather like us and them or they forgive that they also feel more satisfied because they know that and forgave 
There are many life enhancing benefits of forgiveness. For instance, forgiveness can help us to feel happier and make us feel less stressed.

We all have our own thoughts and feelings about what it means to forgive and why we should or shouldn’t do

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

why is important to forgive?

What is the importance of forgiveness ?

We all have our own thoughts and feelings about what it means to forgive and why we should or shouldn’t do

forgiveness doesn’t mean that we are approving, accepting, dismissing or condoning what someone else did.


Forgiveness is about setting yourself free and you can do that by releasing the past so it no longer has control over your thoughts or the way you feel.


Reconciliation can happen thru forgiveness but it is important to understand that we do not need to involve the other person, especially if there is a chance that they won’t be receptive.

in my opinion i think There are many life enhancing benefits of forgiveness. For instance, forgiveness can help us to feel happier and make us feel less stressed.

in my opinion i think is important to forgive because When forgiveness takes place, we naturally release the disturbing thoughts and emotions that drain our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being.

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Single parenting – Is it good or bad for children?



http://img1-cdn.newser.com/square-image/34398-20110401005240/coercive-paternalism-is-bad-parenting.jpeg



in my opinion I think that single motherhood is bad for children and difficult growing up without the love of  dad. Many single parents have to deal with Child Support and Child Custody issues, especially if there was a divorce or legal separation involved.


The Effects of Single Parenting are also complicated due to the guilt a single parent often feels over the breakup of the family, over too much work and not enough time spent with the children, and over other difficult aspects of being a single mother.
Children prefer living with both a mother and a father, and hope that their parents can work out their differences and stop arguing .


 One issue that always comes to light in discussions on the approach to be a child's education is the status of single mother with a large number of women. On the one hand there is much talk of attachment between them and their children, and you see a large number of them who had an only child. In this sense, it is said that the child finds it difficult at times to be separated from his mother. and it is very difficult for adolescents who have children and still go to school. Many children feel insecure and show their discontent and anxiety of being separated from their parents for some time. In this sense, it is said that the mother should give him the confidence of the case and accompany him to where they can assume this without interfering with development.


We all have heard about single parenting and you know it is a big challenge for parents.
We see deaths of one or both parents, sometimes divorce too, can have a bad effect on the mind of the child, so I will discuss over here something about children with single parents.

I would say for those who plan to divorce, they should just give one more chance and think on their relationship, as there are more lives involved in it. It is very painful for the kids to understand divorce and sometimes it makes the kid's life a hell.

It is very disheartening for any kid to be in such a situation. Depending on the age of the child, the decision of remarrying will have a positive or negative effect
My opinion is that it is important and helpful if the parent remarries. A child requires both the parents for a balanced life and growth
Children with single parents whether it was separation due to death or divorce is painful and kids suffer but in a different way